Your Relationship Patterns: What Your Shadow Says about You

Recommended reading:

Be Honest – You’re Not That Into Him Either, Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve, Ian Kerner, PhD

He’s Scared, She’s Scared: Understanding the Hidden Fears that Sabotage Your Relationships, Steven Carter and Julia Sokol

Loving Him without Losing You: How to Stop Disappearing and Start Being Yourself, Beverly Engel

Writing for Your Life: A Guide and Companion to the Inner Worlds, Deena Metzger

A note about astrology and relationships:

Most of you know that I do astrological readings.  It’s amazing what a chart can tell you about the ways in which you approach relationships.  When I researched my own chart, I was floored by how accurate it was.  Many of you probably know your sun sign but your moon sign will tell you how you handle emotions.  The placement of Venus in your chart shows a lot about how you approach love.  And, in my opinion, the most important piece is your north node, or “life’s mission.”  A Capricorn North Node will often want to depend on a relationship to feel safe but she will never have a healthy relationship until she takes charge of her own safety.  A Libra North Node will need to work more on selflessness.  A Pisces  North Node should stop trying to “fix” people and focus on compassion.

Ideally, you’ll understand how all of these astrological pieces fit together.  But, if you’re not up for paying for a full astrological reading (or learning how to do it yourself), you can look up your north node at CafeAstrology.com (and then, do a google search for more information on your north node).  Also, www.astro.com will run your chart and do some computerized interpretation for free.

If you are interested in an astrological reading, information on my services is here. Or, simply contact me at jennifer@jenniferlshelton.com and ask for “information about receiving an astrological reading”.